What Can You Learn from Our Recent Adoption?
...and a question I can't believe I haven't asked you before now!
First...
...let me start off by saying “Hello!”
I know it has been a while since my last blog.
I’ve missed communicating with all of you.
But...
...just like everyone reading this right now...
...I am sure you have times when your life and/or household becomes a bit CRAZY.
Well, it's time to grab the bull by the horns and get back to business.
So recently I was going through a stressful moment…
…and in that moment I thought of what I wanted to help everyone with in my next blog.
It was a question I thought we as a society should really be focusing on.
But before I get to the question let me give you my scenario.
We adopted a new puppy at the end of last summer!
She came from down south so her given name is “Pearl”.
Well Pearl...
...has been a handful to say the least.
But she is genuinely a very good dog who is trying to find her place in our household.
Recently, we have hit a roadblock with her training as she now turns 1 year old next week.
However, with the help of a wonderful dog trainer we are working on Pearl’s behaviors.
It was during this morning’s training when I had an “ah ha” moment.
When I write blogs or we try to find ways to help our community at Everybody’s Fitness Center we are always asking,
“What are people struggling with when it comes to losing weight or reaching their fitness goals?”
Of course we have to ask this because we need to know what you’re struggling with so we know how to help you.
BUT we sometimes focus on the negatives to often!
Just pick up a newspaper, (ok, ok ha-ha sorry that is just me. I still like to use paper and pen).
I guess I should say...
...just read something in social media or watch the news on TV.
You will see a majority of it is bad, sad,
negative news.
So how does this relate to training my dog?
Well, the trainer taught us something so easy and obvious to help us.
Instead of always yelling at Pearl for all the stuff she is doing wrong...
...(get off the counter, don’t jump on the refrigerator, don’t bite, drop the …. you name it she has it in her mouth!)
...we have to reward her for all of the good, positive things she is doing.
We have to cheer, clap and say “good girl” every time she is doing something we WANT her to do...
...like keep all four paws on the floor!
The more we do this, the more good behavior we get out of her.
So this made me think, instead of always focusing on your struggles with your fitness goals let me ask you…..
- What was your #1 achievement today?
- What were your wins today?
- What were you most proud of?
It is too easy for us to focus on all the bad stuff, that you lose sight of what you actually did that was good today.
There was a study done by Emmons and McCullough in 2003 that has become known as the Three Gratitudes .
In this study they asked people to think of 3 new things they were grateful every day for over a period of 21 days.
This means every day they had to come up with 3 different things they were thankful for that happened to them in the last 24 hours.
At the end of the 21 days people who were categorized as pessimists became optimists. And, it was proven that the participants experienced an increase in happiness and lowered their stress hormones!!
All this just by being grateful for the good things they did, no medicine, just positive thoughts.
Our brains function as a single processor and we are incredibly good at always focusing on the negative.
This means that we then miss out on all the positives that happen to us during our routine days.
When was the last time you stood around the coffee maker at work and discussed what an awesome morning you were having?
I used to work in corporate America...
...and I clearly remember this being the time to hash out all of the bad things that have been going on in our lives.
So now translate that into your fitness goals...
...and I bet that instead of giving yourself a pat on the back for doing a good job...
...90% of the time you focus on the one thing you struggled with each day.
Well I am here to tell you that is was proven that...
...Gratitude is a game changer !
And a change in your perception of things is only a single choice away.
You can make up your mind right now that you are good enough!
So, what I can’t believe I have never asked you is this….
What are you grateful for?
What did you do well at today?
Start your own gratitude list today.
This is very simple, I want you to write down 3 things you are grateful for that happened to you today and for the next 21 days.
You can do whatever you want but I do have one rule, the items have to be different every single day.
So, I have a 1 minute challenge for you…
Right now I want you to reply to this message and send me 2 things:
- What are your 3 gratitudes for today?
- What is the #1 thing you are struggling with as
it pertains to your health, fitness, nutrition or motivation?
There are no right or wrong answers here.
And yes I did ask for struggles as well.
I still need to know what your #1 struggles are...
...so we can continue to provide you with the solutions you need and help you succeed with your fitness goals.
So just take 1 minute, click “reply” and send the answers to me.
Or just email me at jenn@efcfit.com I read every single email that comes to me.
Thank you for taking this challenge and as always have a GREAT week!
-Jenn
P.S. - If you would like to share your gratitude with our community, you can visit EFC Gratitude and share.









